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Alisa Cohn

Executive Coach & Author @ Self-employed

Named #1 Startup Coach in the World by Thinkers50. Author of From Start-Up to Grown-Up.

β€œGiving hard feedback, navigating defensiveness, the three questions you should end every meeting with, more, covering team leadership, career development, and product design.”

Career History

CompanyRoleYears
Self-employedExecutive Coach & Author~2000-present
Cornell Tech (Runway)Executive Coach in Residence~2017-present

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β€œLenny, it's so great to be here and thanks for having me.”
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Alisa Cohn

Scripts for difficult conversations: Giving hard feedback, navigating defensiveness, the three questions you should end every meeting with, more | Alisa Cohn (executive coach)

4:54
β€œI wanted to have a conversation with you about some things I've been hearing from your peers about the way that you all are interacting together.”
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Alisa Cohn

Scripts for difficult conversations: Giving hard feedback, navigating defensiveness, the three questions you should end every meeting with, more | Alisa Cohn (executive coach)

15:28
β€œI mean, I can talk all day about this [inaudible 00:25:06], but I'm happy to move on.”
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Alisa Cohn

Scripts for difficult conversations: Giving hard feedback, navigating defensiveness, the three questions you should end every meeting with, more | Alisa Cohn (executive coach)

25:02
β€œYes, that hope for the future is so important and I think sometimes we're such in a rush to kind of deliver the bad news that we forget there's a human being over there who needs hope for the future. ...”
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Alisa Cohn

Scripts for difficult conversations: Giving hard feedback, navigating defensiveness, the three questions you should end every meeting with, more | Alisa Cohn (executive coach)

27:21
β€œI think you touched on the key elements.”
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Alisa Cohn

Scripts for difficult conversations: Giving hard feedback, navigating defensiveness, the three questions you should end every meeting with, more | Alisa Cohn (executive coach)

27:41
β€œIf you have so many talents, but if you can't do these two things, then it's a deal breaker for all of us.”
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Alisa Cohn

Scripts for difficult conversations: Giving hard feedback, navigating defensiveness, the three questions you should end every meeting with, more | Alisa Cohn (executive coach)

34:12
β€œAnd I think it's important to really sort of see that both. Sometimes people think, "Well, but I'm so talented." Yeah, but your talents are not going to make up for these two deal breakers.”
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Alisa Cohn

Scripts for difficult conversations: Giving hard feedback, navigating defensiveness, the three questions you should end every meeting with, more | Alisa Cohn (executive coach)

34:16
β€œYes. Yeah, hopefully. But even if you do, it's actually easier because you've already had the conversation. Right? They're not surprised. It's clear. We've had the discussion.”
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Alisa Cohn

Scripts for difficult conversations: Giving hard feedback, navigating defensiveness, the three questions you should end every meeting with, more | Alisa Cohn (executive coach)

34:36
β€œA hundred percent. And then the right people are going to want to join your team, people who like to win and like to get results.”
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Alisa Cohn

Scripts for difficult conversations: Giving hard feedback, navigating defensiveness, the three questions you should end every meeting with, more | Alisa Cohn (executive coach)

41:40
β€œI mean, the one I use is super simple, which is on the thing called the internet. There's a lot of lists of values and I think when you see a list of values, you can pull out the ones that are most me...”
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Alisa Cohn

Scripts for difficult conversations: Giving hard feedback, navigating defensiveness, the three questions you should end every meeting with, more | Alisa Cohn (executive coach)

1:01:04
β€œIt is a long time to cry. It really... I thought about it because most people just cry for 10 or 15 minutes. I was crying for an hour. I'm positive. Yeah.”
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Alisa Cohn

Scripts for difficult conversations: Giving hard feedback, navigating defensiveness, the three questions you should end every meeting with, more | Alisa Cohn (executive coach)

1:10:45
β€œYeah, I enjoyed Inside Out 2. I thought it was fantastic, the idea [inaudible 01:18:49].”
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Alisa Cohn

Scripts for difficult conversations: Giving hard feedback, navigating defensiveness, the three questions you should end every meeting with, more | Alisa Cohn (executive coach)

1:18:44